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How Do You Break Free from Narcissistic Control? A Step-by-Step Guide to Healing
If you’ve ever felt trapped in a cycle of confusion, gaslighting, and emotional chaos with a narcissist, you know how hard it is to imagine a life free from their control. Narcissists thrive on power, manipulation, and keeping you in a constant state of reaction. But here’s the truth: you can break free. Lynn Catalano, narcissistic abuse recovery expert will be your guide.
Lynn Catalano
Aug 244 min read


The Secret Shame Narcissists Carry (and Why You Become the Target)
We often think of narcissists as brimming with confidence, obsessed with themselves, and utterly immune to insecurity.But here’s the truth: beneath that carefully constructed mask lies a deep well of shame.
And when that shame gets triggered, they’ll do almost anything to avoid feeling it — including blaming, projecting, and gaslighting you. Lynn Catalano explores why and what you can do.
Lynn Catalano
Aug 174 min read


Why Do Narcissists Crave Compliments (and What’s the Emotional Price You Pay)?
If you’ve ever felt like your words of praise disappear into a bottomless pit when dealing with a narcissist, you’re not imagining it. Complimenting a narcissist can feel like pouring water into a bucket with no bottom — it’s exhausting, unsustainable, and emotionally depleting. Lynn Catalano, narcissistic abuse expert, leads you to ways you can protect your peace.
Lynn Catalano
Aug 103 min read


The Bait & The Mask: When Covert Narcissists Pop Back into Your Life
One of my clients, “Jake,” gave me permission to share his story in the hopes of helping others. He grew up under the shadow of a covert narcissistic mother.
Lynn Catalano
Jul 204 min read


🥚 No More Walking on Eggshells: 6 Steps to Rebuild Your Confidence After Narcissistic Abuse
If you've survived narcissistic abuse, you know the devastating impact it has on your sense of self. The constant criticism, gaslighting, and emotional manipulation leave you questioning your worth, your reality, and your ability to trust your own judgment. You've been walking on eggshells for so long that you've forgotten what it feels like to stand tall and speak your truth with confidence. Explore the 6 steps to rebuild your confidence with Lynn Catalano, narcissistic abus
Lynn Catalano
Jul 136 min read


Why No One Believes You: The Popularity Mask of a Narcissist
Have you ever asked yourself, “How can someone so adored by others be so cruel to me behind closed doors?” I did. If so, you’re not imagining it. You’re experiencing one of the most insidious tactics in the narcissist’s toolbox: weaponized popularity. Lynn Catalano, attorney, author & narcissistic abuse recovery coach explores how they do it and what you can do.
Lynn Catalano
Jun 14 min read


Easter, Ruined
If you’ve experienced the chaos, the circus, and the conflict, you know how narcissists ruin and wreck every holiday, special occasion, family gathering. This week I’m sharing a letter I received from someone who’s had their holidays ruined by a narcissist. I know so many of you have had similar experiences, me included.
Lynn Catalano
Apr 134 min read


Toxic People Want to Isolate You From Everyone You Love
One of the most common tactics used by narcissists to control and isolate their victims is self-isolation. Lynn Catalano, author, attorney &
Lynn Catalano
Apr 67 min read


5 Things You Should Always Say “No" to When Dealing with a Narcissist
Narcissistic abuse is a cruel, manipulative, and draining experience. For those who have lived in a toxic relationship with a narcissist, br
Lynn Catalano
Mar 304 min read


What Trauma Bonds Do To You - Trauma Bonds Part 2
These bonds can have a profound impact on your mental, emotional, and even physical well-being. Lynn Catalano, attorney, author narcissistic
Lynn Catalano
Mar 234 min read


Trauma Bonds Explained: How They Form & What You Can Do
Have you found yourself stuck in a toxic relationship, you can’t break free, even when you know it’s hurting you? Lynn Catalano, attorney, a
Lynn Catalano
Mar 164 min read


Am I the Narcissist?
Have you been in a toxic relationship and blamed yourself?
Lynn Catalano
Mar 94 min read


Unpacking Reactive Abuse
Reactive abuse is another tool in the narcissist's toolbox. Lynn Catalano, attorney, author & Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coach shares what

Lynn Catalano
Feb 234 min read


Top 3 Signs of NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder)
Get the top 3 signs of narcissistic personality disorder here! Lynn Catalano, attorney, author, survivor & narcissistic abuse recovery coach

Lynn Catalano
Feb 24 min read


How to Recognize An Abusive Narcissist
Narcissistic abuse is subtle and insidious. Lynn Catalano, attorney, author & Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coach examines what makes them abu

Lynn Catalano
Jan 263 min read


How to Recognize Gaslighting & What You Can Do
It's critical to recognize how gaslighting sounds. Lynn Catalano, author, attorney & Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coach shares what you can d

Lynn Catalano
Jan 193 min read


What is GASLIGHTING?
Gaslighting is a manipulation tactic narcissist's use to punish their victims. Lynn Catalano, attorney, author, survivior & narcissistic abu

Lynn Catalano
Jan 124 min read


The Silent Saboteur: My Covert Narcissist Mother-in-Law's Playbook
Covert narcissists show their benchmark trait of passive-aggressive behavior. Lynn Catalano, attorney, author & Narcissistic Abuse Recovery

Lynn Catalano
Jan 55 min read


Mastering the Art of Ignoring a Narcissist: Reclaim Your Peace & Protect Yourself
You need to know how to ignore your narcissist. Lynn Catalano, author, attorney & Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coach shares strategies she gi

Lynn Catalano
Dec 1, 20243 min read


GASLIGHTING
Narcissists use gaslighting to make you think you're crazy. Lynn Catalano is a narcissistic abuse coach & author of "Wrecking Ball Relation
Lynn Catalano
Jul 31, 20222 min read
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