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How to Disarm a Narcissist During an Argument? 3 Powerful Phrases That Work
If you’ve ever argued with a narcissist, you know it’s never about finding a solution—it's about them winning and you doubting yourself. But what if I told you there are specific phrases that can stop this cycle in its tracks? Lynn Catalano, narcissistic abuse recovery expert shares the 3 phrases that work to disarm a narcissist during an argument.
Lynn Catalano
Aug 35 min read


The Bait & The Mask: When Covert Narcissists Pop Back into Your Life
One of my clients, “Jake,” gave me permission to share his story in the hopes of helping others. He grew up under the shadow of a covert narcissistic mother.
Lynn Catalano
Jul 204 min read


Why You Keep Attracting Toxic People—And How to Stop
If you’ve been in toxic or narcissistic relationships—romantic, family, workplace—it’s likely your nervous system was trained to feel familiarity where there should have been safety. If you find comfort in their chaos, it's time to break these patterns.
Lynn Catalano
Jul 68 min read


Still in the Relationship? 5 Steps to Protect Your Sanity & Plan Your Exit
You know you're in a toxic relationship. You've read the articles, recognized the red flags, and maybe even found the courage to name what's happening to you: narcissistic abuse. But here's where the advice usually stops—and where your real life continues. Explore the 5 steps with Lynn Catalano, Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Expert.
Lynn Catalano
Jun 226 min read


Why You're Not Overreacting: The Hidden Reality of Narcissistic Abuse
The reality of narcissistic abuse is that it's designed to make you question your own perceptions, emotions, and memories. It's a deliberate strategy that leaves you doubting the very experiences that are harming you. Today, I want to validate what you already know deep down: your reactions are normal, your feelings are valid, and your experiences are real.
Lynn Catalano
Jun 155 min read


5 Mistakes to Avoid When Leaving A Narcissist
Leaving a narcissistic toxic relationship is one of the most challenging decisions you can make. Narcissists don't simply let people go—they often escalate their tactics when they sense loss of control. Lynn Catalano, author, attorney & Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coach shares the 5 mistakes to avoid when leaving a narcissist.
Lynn Catalano
May 256 min read


Narcissistic Smear Campaigns: The 3 Moves That Saved Me (& the Journal That Can Save You)
Smear campaigns are a hallmark tactic of narcissistic abuse, designed to damage your reputation, isolate you from support, and undermine your credibility. As someone who has walked this path and now guides others as a narcissistic abuse expert and coach, I want to give you three essential strategies to navigate this storm with clarity, strength, and dignity. Let’s break the toxic cycle—together. Lynn Catalano, author, attorney & Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coach shares what h
Lynn Catalano
May 184 min read


Do’s and Don’ts for Supporting a Loved One After Narcissistic Abuse
Recovering from narcissistic abuse can be challenging and stressful. Although it may take time, healing is possible through some of these methods.
If someone you love has been through this experience, your support can make a life-changing difference. Lynn Catalano, author, attorney, narcissistic abuse recovery coach shares what you should do to comfort your loved one and what to avoid.
Lynn Catalano
May 115 min read


What’s the Difference - Narcissism vs. NPD?
In a time where self-promotion is often praised, the word narcissist gets tossed around easily. But not all narcissism is the same—and understanding the difference between narcissism and Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) is crucial, especially for survivors of emotional and psychological abuse.
Lynn Catalano
May 44 min read


Toxic Attraction Like Moths to a Flame: Empaths & Narcissists
Narcissists and empaths form a toxic, yet magnetic attraction because their psychological needs are in conflict. Lynn Catalano, author, attorney & Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coach explores the disparity between empaths and narcissists and why they are toxicly attracted to each other.
Lynn Catalano
Apr 275 min read


Easter, Ruined
If you’ve experienced the chaos, the circus, and the conflict, you know how narcissists ruin and wreck every holiday, special occasion, family gathering. This week I’m sharing a letter I received from someone who’s had their holidays ruined by a narcissist. I know so many of you have had similar experiences, me included.
Lynn Catalano
Apr 134 min read


Toxic People Want to Isolate You From Everyone You Love
One of the most common tactics used by narcissists to control and isolate their victims is self-isolation. Lynn Catalano, author, attorney &
Lynn Catalano
Apr 67 min read


5 Things You Should Always Say “No" to When Dealing with a Narcissist
Narcissistic abuse is a cruel, manipulative, and draining experience. For those who have lived in a toxic relationship with a narcissist, br
Lynn Catalano
Mar 304 min read


What Trauma Bonds Do To You - Trauma Bonds Part 2
These bonds can have a profound impact on your mental, emotional, and even physical well-being. Lynn Catalano, attorney, author narcissistic
Lynn Catalano
Mar 234 min read


Trauma Bonds Explained: How They Form & What You Can Do
Have you found yourself stuck in a toxic relationship, you can’t break free, even when you know it’s hurting you? Lynn Catalano, attorney, a
Lynn Catalano
Mar 164 min read


Am I the Narcissist?
Have you been in a toxic relationship and blamed yourself?
Lynn Catalano
Mar 94 min read


What 4 Words Will You Never Hear From a Narcissistic Parent?
People who suffer from NPD (narcissistic personality disorder) withhold affection, communication, finances, etc. They are emotionally handic

Lynn Catalano
Mar 24 min read


Unpacking Reactive Abuse
Reactive abuse is another tool in the narcissist's toolbox. Lynn Catalano, attorney, author & Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coach shares what

Lynn Catalano
Feb 234 min read


The #1 Question That Will Tell You if Your Relationship is Toxic
This one question will tell you if your relationship is toxic. Lynn Catalano, attorney, author & narcissistic abuse recovery coach shares th

Lynn Catalano
Feb 164 min read


5 Indications You May Have a Narcissistic Parent
What are the 5 indications you may have a narcissistic parent? Lynn Catalano, attorney, author & narcissistic abuse recovery coach shares th

Lynn Catalano
Feb 94 min read
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