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Why Narcissists Always Ruin the Holidays & How to Stop Letting Them
Every year, you promise yourself it’ll be different. You plan the perfect holiday, hope for peace, and tell yourself this time, the narcissist in your life will behave.
But just like clockwork — they start a fight, create chaos, or steal the spotlight. Make this year different with the help of Lynn Catalano, narcissistic abuse recovery specialist.
Lynn Catalano
Nov 93 min read


The Hidden Ways Narcissistic Parents Shape Every Adult Relationship
You always knew something was off growing up — the walking on eggshells, the constant pressure to please, the feeling that no matter what you did, it was never enough. You’re not crazy, dramatic, or broken. You were raised by a narcissistic parent — and that changes everything about how you learned to love, trust, and feel safe. Lynn Catalano, survivor and narcissistic abuse recovery specialist leads you through the affects and shows you what you can do.
Lynn Catalano
Oct 53 min read


5 Signs You Were Raised by a Narcissistic Parent (And How to Heal)
Growing up with a narcissistic parent leaves invisible wounds. You may look successful on the outside, but inside you feel like you’re always waiting for the other shoe to drop. The patterns you learned in childhood often sneak into your adult relationships, career, and even how you talk to yourself. Lynn Catalano, survivor of a narcissistic parent and expert on narcissistic abuse recovery shares why and what you can do.
Lynn Catalano
Sep 283 min read


Triggered by a Narcissistic Parent’s Call? 3 Steps to Break the Toxic Cycle
Your chest tightens. Your voice changes. You shrink. It’s as if all the progress you’ve made as an adult suddenly disappears. This isn’t your imagination—it’s a trauma trigger.
Adult children of narcissistic parents grow up without support or empathy from their parents. Lynn Catalano, narcissistic abuse recovery specialist shares how to break this toxic cycle.
Lynn Catalano
Sep 143 min read


Stop Self-Sabotaging: How Adult Children of Narcissists Can Finally Thrive
You’ve worked hard. You’ve gotten the degree, the job, maybe even the relationship you thought would bring you peace.
But then… something happens. You drop the ball at work. You pick another partner who treats you poorly. You abandon a goal right before you reach the finish line.
And you’re left asking yourself: “Why do I keep getting in my own way?”
I know that question well. I've been there, Lynn Catalano, narcissistic abuse recovery specialist shares her story and what
Lynn Catalano
Sep 73 min read


The Bait & The Mask: When Covert Narcissists Pop Back into Your Life
One of my clients, “Jake,” gave me permission to share his story in the hopes of helping others. He grew up under the shadow of a covert narcissistic mother.
Lynn Catalano
Jul 204 min read


Why No One Believes You: The Popularity Mask of a Narcissist
Have you ever asked yourself, “How can someone so adored by others be so cruel to me behind closed doors?” I did. If so, you’re not imagining it. You’re experiencing one of the most insidious tactics in the narcissist’s toolbox: weaponized popularity. Lynn Catalano, attorney, author & narcissistic abuse recovery coach explores how they do it and what you can do.
Lynn Catalano
Jun 14 min read


Narcissistic Smear Campaigns: The 3 Moves That Saved Me (& the Journal That Can Save You)
Smear campaigns are a hallmark tactic of narcissistic abuse, designed to damage your reputation, isolate you from support, and undermine your credibility. As someone who has walked this path and now guides others as a narcissistic abuse expert and coach, I want to give you three essential strategies to navigate this storm with clarity, strength, and dignity. Let’s break the toxic cycle—together. Lynn Catalano, author, attorney & Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coach shares what h
Lynn Catalano
May 184 min read


Do’s and Don’ts for Supporting a Loved One After Narcissistic Abuse
Recovering from narcissistic abuse can be challenging and stressful. Although it may take time, healing is possible through some of these methods.
If someone you love has been through this experience, your support can make a life-changing difference. Lynn Catalano, author, attorney, narcissistic abuse recovery coach shares what you should do to comfort your loved one and what to avoid.
Lynn Catalano
May 115 min read


Easter, Ruined
If you’ve experienced the chaos, the circus, and the conflict, you know how narcissists ruin and wreck every holiday, special occasion, family gathering. This week I’m sharing a letter I received from someone who’s had their holidays ruined by a narcissist. I know so many of you have had similar experiences, me included.
Lynn Catalano
Apr 134 min read


Trauma Bonds Explained: How They Form & What You Can Do
Have you found yourself stuck in a toxic relationship, you can’t break free, even when you know it’s hurting you? Lynn Catalano, attorney, a
Lynn Catalano
Mar 164 min read


Am I the Narcissist?
Have you been in a toxic relationship and blamed yourself?
Lynn Catalano
Mar 94 min read


What 4 Words Will You Never Hear From a Narcissistic Parent?
People who suffer from NPD (narcissistic personality disorder) withhold affection, communication, finances, etc. They are emotionally handic

Lynn Catalano
Mar 24 min read
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