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The Hidden Ways Narcissistic Parents Shape Every Adult Relationship
You always knew something was off growing up — the walking on eggshells, the constant pressure to please, the feeling that no matter what you did, it was never enough. You’re not crazy, dramatic, or broken. You were raised by a narcissistic parent — and that changes everything about how you learned to love, trust, and feel safe. Lynn Catalano, survivor and narcissistic abuse recovery specialist leads you through the affects and shows you what you can do.
Lynn Catalano
Oct 53 min read


5 Signs You Were Raised by a Narcissistic Parent (And How to Heal)
Growing up with a narcissistic parent leaves invisible wounds. You may look successful on the outside, but inside you feel like you’re always waiting for the other shoe to drop. The patterns you learned in childhood often sneak into your adult relationships, career, and even how you talk to yourself. Lynn Catalano, survivor of a narcissistic parent and expert on narcissistic abuse recovery shares why and what you can do.
Lynn Catalano
Sep 283 min read


Triggered by a Narcissistic Parent’s Call? 3 Steps to Break the Toxic Cycle
Your chest tightens. Your voice changes. You shrink. It’s as if all the progress you’ve made as an adult suddenly disappears. This isn’t your imagination—it’s a trauma trigger.
Adult children of narcissistic parents grow up without support or empathy from their parents. Lynn Catalano, narcissistic abuse recovery specialist shares how to break this toxic cycle.
Lynn Catalano
Sep 143 min read


Stop Self-Sabotaging: How Adult Children of Narcissists Can Finally Thrive
You’ve worked hard. You’ve gotten the degree, the job, maybe even the relationship you thought would bring you peace.
But then… something happens. You drop the ball at work. You pick another partner who treats you poorly. You abandon a goal right before you reach the finish line.
And you’re left asking yourself: “Why do I keep getting in my own way?”
I know that question well. I've been there, Lynn Catalano, narcissistic abuse recovery specialist shares her story and what
Lynn Catalano
Sep 73 min read


How Do You Break Free from Narcissistic Control? A Step-by-Step Guide to Healing
If you’ve ever felt trapped in a cycle of confusion, gaslighting, and emotional chaos with a narcissist, you know how hard it is to imagine a life free from their control. Narcissists thrive on power, manipulation, and keeping you in a constant state of reaction. But here’s the truth: you can break free. Lynn Catalano, narcissistic abuse recovery expert will be your guide.
Lynn Catalano
Aug 244 min read


The Secret Shame Narcissists Carry (and Why You Become the Target)
We often think of narcissists as brimming with confidence, obsessed with themselves, and utterly immune to insecurity.But here’s the truth: beneath that carefully constructed mask lies a deep well of shame.
And when that shame gets triggered, they’ll do almost anything to avoid feeling it — including blaming, projecting, and gaslighting you. Lynn Catalano explores why and what you can do.
Lynn Catalano
Aug 174 min read


Why Do Narcissists Crave Compliments (and What’s the Emotional Price You Pay)?
If you’ve ever felt like your words of praise disappear into a bottomless pit when dealing with a narcissist, you’re not imagining it. Complimenting a narcissist can feel like pouring water into a bucket with no bottom — it’s exhausting, unsustainable, and emotionally depleting. Lynn Catalano, narcissistic abuse expert, leads you to ways you can protect your peace.
Lynn Catalano
Aug 103 min read


How to Disarm a Narcissist During an Argument? 3 Powerful Phrases That Work
If you’ve ever argued with a narcissist, you know it’s never about finding a solution—it's about them winning and you doubting yourself. But what if I told you there are specific phrases that can stop this cycle in its tracks? Lynn Catalano, narcissistic abuse recovery expert shares the 3 phrases that work to disarm a narcissist during an argument.
Lynn Catalano
Aug 35 min read


The Silent Treatment Isn’t Silence—It’s Control
They say silence is golden—but when you're in a relationship with a narcissist, silence becomes a weapon. If you've ever been stonewalled, ignored, or had your messages go unanswered for days or weeks without explanation, you know exactly what I’m talking about. The silent treatment isn’t about cooling off or seeking space—it’s about control. Explore this topic with Lynn Catalano, narcissistic abuse recovery expert.
Lynn Catalano
Jul 273 min read


The Bait & The Mask: When Covert Narcissists Pop Back into Your Life
One of my clients, “Jake,” gave me permission to share his story in the hopes of helping others. He grew up under the shadow of a covert narcissistic mother.
Lynn Catalano
Jul 204 min read


🥚 No More Walking on Eggshells: 6 Steps to Rebuild Your Confidence After Narcissistic Abuse
If you've survived narcissistic abuse, you know the devastating impact it has on your sense of self. The constant criticism, gaslighting, and emotional manipulation leave you questioning your worth, your reality, and your ability to trust your own judgment. You've been walking on eggshells for so long that you've forgotten what it feels like to stand tall and speak your truth with confidence. Explore the 6 steps to rebuild your confidence with Lynn Catalano, narcissistic abus
Lynn Catalano
Jul 136 min read


Why You Keep Attracting Toxic People—And How to Stop
If you’ve been in toxic or narcissistic relationships—romantic, family, workplace—it’s likely your nervous system was trained to feel familiarity where there should have been safety. If you find comfort in their chaos, it's time to break these patterns.
Lynn Catalano
Jul 68 min read


Still in the Relationship? 5 Steps to Protect Your Sanity & Plan Your Exit
You know you're in a toxic relationship. You've read the articles, recognized the red flags, and maybe even found the courage to name what's happening to you: narcissistic abuse. But here's where the advice usually stops—and where your real life continues. Explore the 5 steps with Lynn Catalano, Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Expert.
Lynn Catalano
Jun 226 min read


Why You're Not Overreacting: The Hidden Reality of Narcissistic Abuse
The reality of narcissistic abuse is that it's designed to make you question your own perceptions, emotions, and memories. It's a deliberate strategy that leaves you doubting the very experiences that are harming you. Today, I want to validate what you already know deep down: your reactions are normal, your feelings are valid, and your experiences are real.
Lynn Catalano
Jun 155 min read


Why No One Believes You: The Popularity Mask of a Narcissist
Have you ever asked yourself, “How can someone so adored by others be so cruel to me behind closed doors?” I did. If so, you’re not imagining it. You’re experiencing one of the most insidious tactics in the narcissist’s toolbox: weaponized popularity. Lynn Catalano, attorney, author & narcissistic abuse recovery coach explores how they do it and what you can do.
Lynn Catalano
Jun 14 min read


5 Mistakes to Avoid When Leaving A Narcissist
Leaving a narcissistic toxic relationship is one of the most challenging decisions you can make. Narcissists don't simply let people go—they often escalate their tactics when they sense loss of control. Lynn Catalano, author, attorney & Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coach shares the 5 mistakes to avoid when leaving a narcissist.
Lynn Catalano
May 256 min read


Narcissistic Smear Campaigns: The 3 Moves That Saved Me (& the Journal That Can Save You)
Smear campaigns are a hallmark tactic of narcissistic abuse, designed to damage your reputation, isolate you from support, and undermine your credibility. As someone who has walked this path and now guides others as a narcissistic abuse expert and coach, I want to give you three essential strategies to navigate this storm with clarity, strength, and dignity. Let’s break the toxic cycle—together. Lynn Catalano, author, attorney & Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coach shares what h
Lynn Catalano
May 184 min read


Do’s and Don’ts for Supporting a Loved One After Narcissistic Abuse
Recovering from narcissistic abuse can be challenging and stressful. Although it may take time, healing is possible through some of these methods.
If someone you love has been through this experience, your support can make a life-changing difference. Lynn Catalano, author, attorney, narcissistic abuse recovery coach shares what you should do to comfort your loved one and what to avoid.
Lynn Catalano
May 115 min read


What’s the Difference - Narcissism vs. NPD?
In a time where self-promotion is often praised, the word narcissist gets tossed around easily. But not all narcissism is the same—and understanding the difference between narcissism and Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) is crucial, especially for survivors of emotional and psychological abuse.
Lynn Catalano
May 44 min read


Toxic Attraction Like Moths to a Flame: Empaths & Narcissists
Narcissists and empaths form a toxic, yet magnetic attraction because their psychological needs are in conflict. Lynn Catalano, author, attorney & Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coach explores the disparity between empaths and narcissists and why they are toxicly attracted to each other.
Lynn Catalano
Apr 275 min read
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